{"id":42183,"date":"2016-06-13T11:10:42","date_gmt":"2016-06-13T01:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/?p=42183"},"modified":"2016-05-25T15:10:55","modified_gmt":"2016-05-25T05:10:55","slug":"7-lessons-i-learned-travelling-solo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/7-lessons-i-learned-travelling-solo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 lessons I learned travelling solo"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Imagine, you&#8217;ve just stepped off the plane in a foreign country ready to embark on your solo adventure<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And then a wave of nerves and anxiety hit you. After going on\u00a0two solo adventures I&#8217;ve realised how much I&#8217;ve learnt about myself and how much of a good thing solo travel is for the soul. Read on for 7 lessons I learnt travelling solo.<\/p>\n<h3><b>1. You can make friends anywhere, even when you least expect it.\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From airports to your hostel to coffee shops, you\u2019ll meet like minded people and become friends instantly. You may be asking someone for directions, you may drop a bag and they might pick it up for you or someone might buy you a drink out one night, either way&#8230;you\u2019ll be able to make friends anywhere your travels take you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">FYI &#8211; Hostels are a great way to meet people if you are travelling solo for the first time!<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 40.0925925926% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BCpXQojHPwu\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Tayla Grobler (@taylagrobler)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2016-03-07T09:11:08+00:00\">Mar 7, 2016 at 1:11am PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><b>2. You learn not to stress so much &#8211; bring on the zen.\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I used to stress over the littlest detail before I spent some time by myself travelling. You will learn to see your panic coming and you\u2019ll be able to make sure it doesn\u2019t come any closer, you\u2019ll be able to reassure yourself that everything is actually okay and it will work out. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Travelling alone pushes your limits until you persevere and learn the courage to just deal with the situation and move on. From cancelled flights in <\/span>Argentina <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to being severely late for a shark dive in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/Destinations-In-Hawaii.d213.Flight-Destinations?brandcid=LASTMINUTE-au.display.BLOG.SOLOTRAVELBLOG.generic&amp;utm_source=BLOG&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;utm_content=ALL&amp;utm_campaign=SOLOTRAVELBLOG\">Hawaii<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, I\u2019ve learned to deal with stress and it\u2019s helped me tons! You may not realise until you\u2019re on the flight home that you\u2019ve become so confident and have these new set of skills but you survived the big bad world all by yourself, bumps along the way and all.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BD3IM9qHP6a\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Tayla Grobler (@taylagrobler)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2016-04-06T14:00:20+00:00\">Apr 6, 2016 at 7:00am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" async=\"\" defer=\"defer\"><\/script><b>3. Some experiences are meant to be shared<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My solo travels to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/top-5-things-to-know-about-doing-a-ski-season-in-canada\/\">Canada<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/travelling-to-argentina-heres-7-last-minute-travel-tips\/\">Argentina <\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/antarctica-a-photo-diary-of-the-great-wilderness\/\">Antarctica <\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">really opened my eyes, gave me confidence and most of all made me realise that some adventures are meant to be shared with others. Don\u2019t get me wrong, I don\u2019t regret travelling solo, it\u2019s an amazing experience but there were some points during those trips that I wished I could have shared with my friends from home or my family, not afterwards through photos but during the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 37.5% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BAallp7HP_d\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Tayla Grobler (@taylagrobler)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2016-01-11T22:24:57+00:00\">Jan 11, 2016 at 2:24pm PST<\/time>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" async=\"\" defer=\"defer\"><\/script><b>4. There are some really nice people out there<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes things don\u2019t go to plan, for you or someone else. This is when you realise how kind people can actually be. When you look horribly lost in a new town, don\u2019t speak the language and someone stops to help you and offer guidance, it makes you just want to hug the stranger in the middle of the street, even if it takes a ton of hand signals and 15 minutes of painful translation to tell them you just need a bathroom.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 30.0859598854% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BExv1z_nPxT\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Tayla Grobler (@taylagrobler)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2016-04-29T08:22:39+00:00\">Apr 29, 2016 at 1:22am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" async=\"\" defer=\"defer\"><\/script><b>5. Y<\/b><b>ou hate being alone, yet you love it.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Walking through the departure gates is an exciting time, waving goodbye to your friends and family but once you step out of the airport at your destination a wave of nervousness and doubt hits you, you feel like you want to jump back on the plane home and wonder why you even decided to do this. This is how a lot of people feel at the beginning of their adventure but don\u2019t forget, it\u2019s only the beginning! <\/span> Soon enough you\u2019ll be settled at your accommodation, walking around exploring the town and getting a feel of your solo adventure! You have no set schedule, no rules (except laws of course!), no one to tell you where to go first and the whole world at your feet. The solitude is relaxing, eye-opening and <em>super<\/em> exciting!<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0 <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/wWq5iKuQtu\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Bel Scott (@_belindakate)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2014-12-08T17:32:05+00:00\">Dec 8, 2014 at 9:32am PST<\/time>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>\u00a0<b>6. You gain confidence, you go girl! (or boy)<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you\u2019re out exploring the world or praising yourself for getting the right bus in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/Destinations-In-Argentina.d8.Flight-Destinations?brandcid=LASTMINUTE-au.display.BLOG.SOLOTRAVELBLOG.generic&amp;utm_source=BLOG&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;utm_content=ALL&amp;utm_campaign=SOLOTRAVELBLOG\">Argentina<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you will learn very quickly that you need to depend on yourself for everything. It may not happen right away but it will happen when you need it most. Whether it\u2019s walking up to a local in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/Buenos-Aires-Hotels.d178242.Travel-Guide-Hotels?brandcid=LASTMINUTE-au.display.BLOG.SOLOTRAVELBLOG.generic&amp;utm_source=BLOG&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;utm_content=ALL&amp;utm_campaign=SOLOTRAVELBLOG\">Buenos Aires<\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to ask for directions to your hostel or successfully buying a bus ticket with no experience in speaking Spanish. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing you can look after yourself in a foreign country gives you an amazing amount of confidence.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/vcUNVhuQuN\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Bel Scott (@_belindakate)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2014-11-16T01:37:52+00:00\">Nov 15, 2014 at 5:37pm PST<\/time>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" async=\"\" defer=\"defer\"><\/script><b>7. You become independent<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Travelling solo means you have to rely on yourself for all of your decisions, this means that after you\u2019ve been on the road for a little bit you become a master at making decisions. When I moved to <\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/Destinations-In-Canada.d31.Flight-Destinations?brandcid=LASTMINUTE-au.display.BLOG.SOLOTRAVELBLOG.generic&amp;utm_source=BLOG&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;utm_content=ALL&amp;utm_campaign=SOLOTRAVELBLOG\">Canada<\/a> <strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and worked th<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/top-5-things-to-know-about-doing-a-ski-season-in-canada\/\">ski season<\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and a stayed for a\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lastminute.com.au\/vc\/blog\/summer-in-whistler-101\/\">summer<\/a>, <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span><strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> became really independent and felt that I really grew up compared to the pre-solo travel Bel. <\/span><\/strong> <strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From having to deal with injuries to my budget to juggling a couple jobs at a time while still living the awesome ski town life. The experience of travelling solo has really made me become a better person, inside and out.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-version=\"7\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\"><\/div>\n<p><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/RFF7fOOQoq\/\" target=\"_blank\">A photo posted by Bel Scott (@_belindakate)<\/a> on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2012-10-22T09:28:44+00:00\">Oct 22, 2012 at 2:28am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2><script src=\"\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\" async=\"\" defer=\"defer\"><\/script><br \/>\n<em>\u00a0 Have you ever travelled solo? 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